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Is it possible to bring tantra together

with conscious kink?


Of course!  


Tantra is about expanding consciousness and accepting life as it is.  Life is not just beautiful or awful, dark or bright. Life is magical and it is when we surrender to the magic of life that we truly grow with trust, acceptance and love.


The Point of Surrender is a fusion of tantra and BDSM. You are welcome alone or together with a partner at the retreat. It does not have to be your life partner, you can bring a lover or a friend with whom you feel safe to explore both light and dark.  

Our primary focus on the course is surrender. Surrender is considered in many spiritual traditions to be a very important part of achieving happiness and we believe so too.

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1st to 5th of May 2024

20 - 24 April 2022

Lin and Andy who teach the course have explored surrender, submission and dominance in many different areas both privately and professionally.


Surrender means being able to let go of control and be totally present in what is, and the Point of Surrender is a course to practice this and to play with power dynamics in a relationship. For us, your safety and comfort are the absolute most important things. You will never be forced to do something you don't want to and you always have access to a team of trained therapists as support.

Anyone who has been on our courses before is amazed at the slowness, beauty and peace of what we offer. At the same time, you are challenged and given space to feel everything - love and hate, shame, fear, pain, horniness and longing and you get to express your feelings raw and honest.



The course suits both you who are curious beginners and you who are experienced.


Are you used to hiding yourself because of fear of being judged or rejected? Do you have a habit of expressing your desires only halfway and leaving out the innermost yearnings? Is it difficult for you to take control of your life and be firm in your decisions or do you find it difficult to give up?


By exploring dominance and submission, we cover all these topics, and more - connected to your sex life and everyday life in general.

Deepen your communication.

Group coaching, individual coaching by trained therapists, boundary setting exercises and communication exercises are an important part of the course.

Meet each other more deeply with tantric meditations and ceremonies.

Experience energetic sex and yoni healing.

Meet the melting point between pain and pleasure. Learn to handle whips and other toys in a safe and beautiful way.

Many people heal their traumas through pain.

The Japanese rope art of Shibari is not only beautiful, but an exciting tool for getting closer to each other as a couple.

Learn the basics or develop the knowledge you already have.

Explore your relationship through power dynamic exercises.

Who leads and who follows and what happens if we switch roles?

Of course, we invite you to fun play parties where you can dress up and explore your sexuality together with your partner or the others in the group.

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Co Teacher - Andy Buru

​​ Andy Buru has been teaching bondage from an artistic and therapeutic perspective, since 2008. His main sources of inspiration are Japanese rope art (Yukinaga Max) and modern dance (Felix Ruckert). He is a theater student, medical massage therapist, former organizational coach and a conscious kinkster. During his fifteen years with BDSM, he has been a slave, owner, hedonist, purist, magician and slut. Now he brings his nerdy passion for psychology, anatomy and mysticism and lets them merge. Andy's therapeutic work is based on modern modalities for embodied trauma therapy, consent and conscious sexuality, instead of old spiritual belief systems.

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It was four amazing days at Skeppsudden. I remember how nervous I was about coming to the course, both BDSM and tantra were new to me and my partner, but now afterwards I am so grateful that we came.  


It was a life-changing experience for both of us and we could not have gotten better guides to this world, so thank you for that.


At the beginning of the course, I mentioned that my burnout led me here, that I wanted to know why I am who I am and that for some reason I felt that this world may have the key to unlocking it.


Before the course it was just a feeling, I could not really put into words why it was so but after Andy's and Lin's guidance, everything fell into place. I feel that I understand myself better and I understand the connection between myself, sex and submission / dominance. Not only on an intellectual level but also on an embodied level, which makes it real and gives it the power to transform me.  


These techniques also work on people who have almost no experience with either tantra or BDSM.


I'm even grateful for my burnout now because it led me here. It feels like we have found a whole new grand piano to explore in the house of life. We have signed up for your online course now and will keep an eye on future events and workshops.

Thanks thanks thanks!



Price and booking

Price per person: SEK 9,900 - then includes food & accommodation in dormitory. Pay SEK 800 extra per person and get a double room*

You can pay by card or Swish by pushing the button here or get an invoice by emailing:

Place; Skepsuddens Kursgård - Norrköping



* Your place is only secured upon payment of the course fee. Registration is binding and exceptions are only made in case of illness. However, you can sell your ticket if you are prevented from doing so

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